When Telehealth Isn't Right for You
Published October 2025 · Last updated · Written and edited by Paul Paradis · Educational information – not medical or mental-health advice
What changed: Reworded phrases in the text, such as “comprehensive” to “a full”.
Reviewed for educational clarity and safety language by Lisa Lewis, RN, BSN
While telehealth works well for many healthcare needs, there are situations where in-person care is more appropriate, and knowing the difference helps you get the right level of care. Understanding these limitations helps you make informed decisions and know when to seek in-person services instead.
Medical Situations Requiring In-Person Care
Emergencies and Urgent Care
Telehealth is never appropriate for true emergencies. For more on this topic, see our guide on emergency situations and telehealth limits. Seek immediate in-person care for:
- Chest pain or difficulty breathing
- Signs of stroke (facial drooping, arm weakness, speech difficulty)
- Severe injuries or uncontrolled bleeding
- Loss of consciousness
- Severe allergic reactions
- High fever with severe symptoms
If you're experiencing a medical emergency, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room immediately.
Conditions Requiring Physical Examination
Some diagnoses require hands-on assessment:
- Abdominal pain requiring palpation
- Ear infections (requires otoscope examination)
- Potential bone fractures
- Lumps or masses needing physical assessment
- Blood pressure monitoring for new patients
- Heart or lung sounds (requiring stethoscope)
Procedures and Tests
These cannot be done virtually:
- Blood draws and lab work
- Imaging (X-rays, MRIs, ultrasounds)
- Injections and vaccinations
- Minor surgical procedures
- Physical therapy requiring hands-on manipulation
Mental Health Situations Where In-Person May Be Better
Crisis and Safety Concerns
Telehealth may not be sufficient if you're experiencing:
- Active suicidal thoughts with a plan: Requires immediate safety assessment
- Self-harm urges: May need in-person support and safety planning
- Severe psychotic symptoms: Hallucinations, delusions requiring evaluation
- Manic episodes: May need intensive treatment or medication adjustment
- Severe dissociation: Hard to manage safely through a screen
If you're in crisis: Contact the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline (call or text 988), go to your nearest emergency room, or call 911.
Conditions Needing Intensive Treatment
Some mental health conditions may require in-person care:
- Severe eating disorders: May need medical monitoring and higher levels of care
- Severe substance use disorders: Especially during detox
- First-episode psychosis: Requires a full evaluation
- Complex PTSD with severe dissociation: Safety considerations
- Treatment-resistant conditions: May need intensive outpatient or residential programs
Specific Therapy Approaches
Some therapeutic techniques work better in person:
- EMDR: While telehealth EMDR exists, some practitioners prefer in-person
- Intensive trauma work: May need in-person support
- Group therapy: Often more effective face-to-face
- Art or expressive therapies: May require physical materials and space
- Somatic therapies: Body-based approaches can be limited virtually
Personal Circumstances That Affect Telehealth Success
Privacy Limitations
Telehealth may not work well if you:
- Don't have a private space for appointments
- Live with people you can't discuss therapy around
- Share devices with others who might access your information
- Work or live in environments with no opportunity for privacy
Technology Barriers
Consider in-person care if you:
- Don't have reliable internet access
- Lack a device with camera and microphone
- Find technology frustrating or anxiety-inducing
- Have hearing or vision impairments that make video calls difficult
- Live in an area with poor internet infrastructure
Personal Preferences
Telehealth might not be right for you if:
- You feel disconnected through a screen
- You find it hard to be vulnerable virtually
- The physical presence of another person feels important to you
- You're more easily distracted at home
- You value the ritual of leaving home for appointments
- You've tried telehealth and it didn't feel effective
Signs Telehealth Isn't Working for You
Consider switching to in-person care if:
- You're not making progress: After adequate time and effort
- You feel disconnected: Can't build rapport with your provider
- Technical issues are constant: Disrupting the quality of care
- You're less engaged: Multitasking or not fully present in sessions
- Your condition is worsening: Despite consistent treatment
- You avoid sessions: Finding excuses not to attend
- Important things go unsaid: You don't feel comfortable opening up
Hybrid Approaches: The Best of Both
You don't have to choose exclusively between telehealth and in-person care. To understand what telehealth can treat effectively, see our beginner's guide.
- Initial in-person, then telehealth: Start with face-to-face sessions, then transition
- Mostly telehealth with periodic in-person: Monthly in-person check-ins
- In-person for intensive work, telehealth for maintenance: Use each for its strengths
- Telehealth between in-person appointments: Supplemental support
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Discuss hybrid options with your provider. Many platforms like Headway and Grow Therapy connect you with therapists who offer both modalities. If you're unsure which format is right for you, our guide on finding the right care format can help.
Transitioning from Telehealth to In-Person Care
How to Make the Switch
- Talk to your current provider: They may offer in-person sessions or referrals
- Ask for recommendations: Your telehealth therapist can suggest local providers
- Check your insurance: Understand coverage for in-person services
- Request records transfer: Arrange for continuity of care
- Allow transition time: Overlap with your current provider if possible
Finding In-Person Providers
- Psychology Today's therapist finder
- Your insurance company's provider directory
- Primary care referrals
- Community mental health centers
- University training clinics (often lower cost)
Special Populations to Consider
Children and Adolescents
Young people may need in-person care when:
- They have difficulty engaging through screens
- Play therapy is part of treatment
- Family sessions work better face-to-face
- Assessment requires observation of behavior in different contexts
Older Adults
In-person may be preferable when:
- Technology is a significant barrier
- Hearing or vision impairments affect video quality
- Cognitive issues make handling platforms difficult
- Social connection from in-person visits is therapeutic in itself
People with Certain Disabilities
Consider in-person care when telehealth accommodations are insufficient for:
- Visual impairments requiring specific accessibility features
- Hearing impairments not fully addressed by captions or sign language interpreters
- Motor impairments affecting technology use
- Cognitive differences that make virtual sessions difficult
Making an Informed Decision
Consider these questions:
- What type of care do I actually need?
- Do I have the privacy and technology for telehealth?
- How do I communicate best, in person or virtually?
- What are my local in-person options?
- What does my insurance cover?
- Am I willing to give telehealth a fair trial before deciding?
There's no shame in preferring in-person care. The best treatment is the one you'll actually engage with fully.
Signals that a screen is the wrong first step
A few situations come up again and again when people later say video was a poor fit:
- The problem needs hands or equipment. Abdominal pain that is getting worse, a lump, a joint that will not bear weight, or anything that needs a lab draw or imaging. A video clinician will usually send you in anyway, so you pay twice.
- You cannot talk freely where you are. If a partner, parent or roommate can overhear, and especially if that person is part of the problem, an office visit protects you in a way your living room cannot.
- Symptoms are moving fast. New confusion, a manic episode, hearing voices for the first time, or eating-disorder symptoms with fainting or a very low weight call for an in-person assessment.
- The connection keeps failing. Three dropped sessions in a month is a sign to switch to phone sessions or an office, not to keep trying.
The APA's telepsychology guidelines ask clinicians to judge, case by case, whether remote care is appropriate and to have an in-person plan when it is not. Medicare has its own wrinkle: its telehealth flexibilities run through December 31, 2027 (Medicare.gov), after which in-person visit rules for mental health telehealth are scheduled to apply. A good provider will tell you plainly when to come in.
Frequently asked questions
When is telehealth NOT appropriate for medical care?
Telehealth is not appropriate for medical emergencies like chest pain, signs of stroke, or severe injuries. It also cannot replace care requiring physical examination such as abdominal palpation or ear infections, or procedures like blood draws, imaging, injections, and hands-on physical therapy.
What mental health situations require in-person care instead of telehealth?
In-person care may be better for active suicidal thoughts with a plan, severe self-harm urges, severe psychotic symptoms, manic episodes, severe dissociation, eating disorders requiring medical monitoring, substance use disorders during detox, and first-episode psychosis requiring a full evaluation.
What personal factors might make telehealth not work well for me?
Telehealth may not work well if you lack a private space for appointments, don't have reliable internet or a device with camera and microphone, find technology frustrating, have hearing or vision impairments that make video calls difficult, or simply feel more comfortable and connected with in-person care.
What are signs that telehealth therapy isn't working for me?
Consider switching to in-person care if you're not making progress after adequate time, feel disconnected from your provider, experience constant technical issues, are less engaged or multitasking during sessions, your condition is worsening despite treatment, or you find yourself avoiding sessions.
Can I combine telehealth with in-person visits?
Yes, hybrid approaches are often very effective. You might start with in-person sessions then transition to telehealth, do mostly telehealth with periodic in-person check-ins, use in-person for intensive work and telehealth for maintenance, or use telehealth sessions between regular in-person appointments.
How do I transition from telehealth to in-person care?
Talk to your current telehealth provider who may offer in-person sessions or referrals. Ask for recommendations for local providers, check your insurance coverage for in-person services, request records transfer for continuity of care, and allow transition time to overlap with your current provider if possible.
Related reading on when telehealth is not enough
Using this when telehealth is not enough guide safely
This overview of when telehealth is not enough is general educational information only. It is not medical advice. The best care modality for you depends on your individual circumstances, condition, and preferences. Consult with healthcare providers to determine what's right for you.
If you're experiencing a medical or mental health emergency, seek in-person care immediately. Call 911, go to an emergency room, or contact the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.
Sources
Who wrote this when telehealth is not enough guide
This when telehealth is not enough guide was written and edited by Paul Paradis, founder and editor of Telehealth Navigator, who spent more than two years working inside a forensic mental health hospital setting, and mental health also runs through his own life and family. His method is to read the source material most readers don’t have time for, which means SAMHSA program documents, CMS telehealth policy, and APA and NIMH guidance, which he translates into plain English with links to the originals so readers can check the work for themselves. Paul is not a licensed clinician, so please treat this when telehealth is not enough guide as information rather than medical advice, and see our editorial standards for the full process of how every guide is researched, reviewed, and updated.