Online Therapy for Children: How It Works, Options & Cost

Short answer: yes, children can get therapy online, but the right service depends on age. Programs built for young children work mostly through the parent, while services for teenagers talk to the teen directly. The table below sorts the main online pediatric services by the ages they serve.

Online therapy for children can be effective for many behavioral and emotional concerns, but it works differently than adult therapy, and parents play a key role in making it successful. Telehealth has expanded access to child therapists, allowing families to connect with qualified providers from the comfort of home. This guide helps parents understand how online therapy works for children and how to determine if it might be right for your family.

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Online Services by Child’s Age (Checked October 29, 2026)

Age ranges and services are taken from each company’s own site. For prices, parent access and insurance on the teen services, see the comparison in online therapy for teens; for coverage questions, does insurance cover online therapy.

Online pediatric mental health services by the ages they serve
Service	Ages served	What is offered	Source	Checked
Little Otter	Birth to 18, grouped as 0–2, 3–7, 8–12 and 13–18, plus support for parents	Therapy and psychiatry by video after a free kickoff call	Little Otter	October 29, 2026
Bend Health	Ages 1 to 25	Coaching, therapy and psychiatry by video; neuropsychological testing for ages 2–25; virtual intensive outpatient care for ages 7–25	Bend Health	October 29, 2026
Brightline	Children and teens up to 18	Therapy and psychiatry online in four states, with office visits in New York, New Jersey and Connecticut	Brightline	October 29, 2026
Talkiatry	Ages 5 to 18 in its children’s mental health program	Psychiatric evaluation and medication management, entirely online and billed to insurance	Talkiatry	October 29, 2026
Talkspace	Ages 13 to 17 with a parent’s or guardian’s consent	Therapy by text messaging, with a plan that adds monthly video sessions	Talkspace teens	October 29, 2026
Teen Counseling	Ages 13 to 19 with a parent’s or guardian’s consent	Counseling by messaging, chat, phone or video	Teen Counseling	October 29, 2026

How to read this therapy for children guide

The therapy for children material here is for educational purposes only. It is not medical or mental health advice and does not replace consultation with qualified healthcare providers. The appropriateness of online therapy for children depends on the child's age, needs, and circumstances.

Parents should be actively involved in their child's mental health care. If your child is in crisis or danger, contact emergency services (911) or take them to the nearest emergency room.

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Can Online Therapy Work for Children?

Research shows that telehealth can be effective for many childhood mental health concerns, though effectiveness varies by:

Age: Older children and adolescents often adapt well; younger children may need modified approaches
Condition: Many conditions respond well to online treatment; some may require in-person care
Child's temperament: Some children engage better virtually; others need in-person connection
Family involvement: Parents usually take part directly when the child is young
Therapist expertise: Experience with both children AND telehealth matters

Good Candidates for Online Therapy

Children with anxiety who may feel more comfortable at home
Kids who are already comfortable with technology
Families in areas with limited local child therapy options
Children with physical health issues making travel difficult
Situations requiring ongoing care during schedule constraints
Follow-up and maintenance therapy after initial in-person treatment

May Need In-Person Care Instead

Very young children (generally under 6) who need hands-on play therapy
Children with severe attention difficulties
Situations involving safety concerns
When physical assessment is needed
Severe behavioral disorders requiring intensive intervention
When the child strongly resists video sessions

Common Childhood Issues Treated Online

Anxiety: Generalized anxiety, social anxiety, separation anxiety, phobias
Depression: Sadness, withdrawal, mood changes; learn more about online therapy for depression
ADHD: Parent training and behavioral strategies (medication requires in-person or specialized telehealth); see our ADHD telehealth guide
Behavioral challenges: Defiance, anger, aggression
Trauma: PTSD, adjustment to difficult experiences: our PTSD and trauma therapy guide covers treatment approaches
Social skills: Friendship difficulties, communication challenges
School issues: School anxiety, academic stress, bullying
Family transitions: Divorce, new siblings, moves
Grief: Loss of loved ones or pets
Autism-related support: Social skills, emotional regulation

How Child Telehealth Works

What to Expect

Initial consultation: Usually includes parent interview to understand concerns
Assessment: Therapist evaluates the child's needs
Treatment plan: Developed with parent input
Regular sessions: Usually 30-50 minutes depending on age
Parent involvement: Ranges from attending sessions to separate parent consultations
Homework/practice: Skills to work on between sessions

Session Format by Age

Young Children (3-6)

Sessions typically involve high parent participation
Parent coaching models (therapist teaches parent to implement strategies)
Shorter attention spans require creative engagement
May use virtual games, drawing, or interactive activities
Some approaches may not translate well to online format

School-Age Children (6-12)

More direct work with the child is possible
Interactive activities, games, and worksheets
CBT techniques adapted for children
Parent involvement through separate check-ins
Combination of individual and family sessions

Adolescents (13+)

More similar to adult therapy format
Greater independence in sessions
Balance of teen confidentiality and parent communication
See our online therapy for teenagers guide for more information

Finding a Child Therapist Online

Telehealth Platforms

BetterHelp - Has therapists who specialize in children (note: their Teen Counseling platform is for ages 13+)
Talkspace - Offers services for adolescents with parental consent
Headway - Find insurance-covered child therapists offering telehealth
Grow Therapy - Search for child specialists
Little Otter: Specifically focused on children's mental health
Brightline: Pediatric behavioral health for families

Finding Child Specialists

Psychology Today directory: Filter by "Child or Adolescent" and "Telehealth"
Your pediatrician may have referrals
School counselors often know local providers offering telehealth
Insurance provider directories (filter for child specialty)
Ask about child-specific credentials (Registered Play Therapist, child psychology training)

Questions to Ask Potential Therapists

What is your experience working with children my child's age?
What conditions or issues do you specialize in?
How do you adapt therapy for telehealth with children?
What does parent involvement look like in your approach?
What platform/technology do you use?
How long are sessions for children?
How will you engage my child virtually?
What should we do if my child won't engage in sessions?
How do you handle confidentiality with children?
What training do you have in child/pediatric mental health?

Preparing Your Child for Online Therapy

Before the First Session

Explain therapy in age-appropriate terms: "You're going to talk to someone who helps kids with their feelings and worries"
Normalize it: Many kids see therapists and it doesn't mean something is wrong with them
Show them the technology beforehand so it's familiar
Let them know you'll be nearby but they'll have private time
Ask if they have questions or concerns
Read our guide to your first therapy session for additional preparation tips

Setting Up for Success

Quiet space: Find a private, comfortable area
Good lighting: Face a window or light source
Stable internet: Test the connection beforehand
Appropriate device: Large enough screen for engagement (tablet or computer often better than phone)
Have supplies ready: Paper, crayons, toys the therapist may want to use
Remove distractions: Quiet other devices, close doors

Parent Involvement

Your role is essential in your child's therapy. Our guide to support for parents and caregivers covers strategies for managing your own wellbeing during this process.

What Parents Typically Do

Provide information about concerns and history
Participate in sessions (especially for younger children)
Learn strategies to implement at home
Practice skills with your child between sessions
Monitor progress and report back to the therapist
Attend parent-only sessions for coaching and updates

Parent Coaching Models

For younger children especially, many effective approaches focus on teaching parents:

PCIT (Parent-Child Interaction Therapy): Therapist coaches you in real-time during interactions with your child
Parent Management Training: Learn behavior management strategies
SPACE (Supportive Parenting for Anxious Childhood Emotions): Parents learn to reduce accommodation of anxiety
These can work very well via telehealth

Signs Your Child May Need Support

Consider reaching out if your child shows:

Persistent sadness, tearfulness, or hopelessness
Excessive worry or fear that interferes with activities
Significant changes in eating or sleeping
Withdrawal from friends, family, or activities
Frequent tantrums or behavioral outbursts
Declining school performance
Physical complaints with no medical cause
Regression to younger behaviors (bedwetting, thumb-sucking)
Talk about death, self-harm, or not wanting to exist
Extreme difficulty separating from parents
Difficulty adjusting to changes or transitions

If your child expresses thoughts of suicide or self-harm, seek immediate help through emergency services or crisis resources.

Insurance and Costs

Using Insurance

Check your plan's mental health benefits for children
Confirm telehealth coverage (most plans now cover it)
Use Headway or Grow Therapy to find in-network child specialists
Get referrals from your pediatrician if required by your plan

Lower-Cost Options

Community mental health centers
University training clinics
Sliding scale providers
School-based mental health services
Medicaid often covers children's mental health

Crisis Resources

If your child is in crisis:

988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988
Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
Emergency services: Call 911
Nearest emergency room: For immediate safety concerns
Your child's therapist: Most have crisis protocols

Don't wait if you're concerned about safety. Trust your instincts as a parent.

Frequently asked questions

At what age can children benefit from online therapy?

Children as young as 3-6 can benefit from telehealth, though sessions typically involve high parent participation and use parent coaching models. School-age children (6-12) can engage more directly through interactive activities and games. Very young children who need hands-on play therapy may do better with in-person care.

How involved should parents be in their child's online therapy?

Parent involvement is essential, especially for younger children. Parents provide information about concerns, may participate directly in sessions, learn strategies to implement at home, practice skills with their child between sessions, and attend parent-only consultations. For many effective approaches with young children, the therapist primarily coaches parents rather than working directly with the child.

How do therapists keep children engaged during video sessions?

Child therapists adapt their techniques for telehealth using virtual games, interactive drawing activities, worksheets, and creative engagement strategies. Sessions are typically shorter for younger children to match their attention spans. Having supplies like paper and crayons ready helps, and experienced child telehealth therapists know how to make sessions fun and engaging.

What mental health issues can be treated in children through telehealth?

Many childhood concerns respond well to telehealth treatment, including anxiety, depression, behavioral challenges, ADHD (parent training and strategies), trauma, social skills difficulties, school issues like bullying, family transitions like divorce, grief, and autism-related support. Some conditions may still require in-person assessment or intensive intervention.

How do I prepare my child for their first online therapy session?

Explain therapy in age-appropriate terms like 'talking to someone who helps kids with feelings and worries.' Normalize it by noting many kids see therapists. Show them the technology beforehand so it's familiar, let them know you'll be nearby, and ask if they have questions. Set up a quiet, comfortable space with good lighting and have any supplies the therapist recommends ready.

When should I consider in-person therapy instead of online for my child?

Consider in-person care for very young children under 6 who need hands-on play therapy, children with severe attention difficulties who can't engage on video, situations involving safety concerns, severe behavioral disorders requiring intensive intervention, or when your child strongly resists video sessions. Your pediatrician or the therapist can help determine the best approach.

Using this therapy for children guide safely

This overview of therapy for children is general educational information only. It is not medical or mental health advice. The appropriateness of online therapy for your child depends on their individual needs, age, and circumstances. Consult with qualified healthcare providers to determine the best treatment approach.

If your child is in danger or experiencing a mental health emergency, contact emergency services (911) or go to your nearest emergency room.

Sources

The person behind this therapy for children guide

Paul Paradis, who founded and edits Telehealth Navigator, wrote and edited this therapy for children guide, and his background includes more than two years working inside a forensic mental health hospital setting along with a personal and family life that mental health is part of. Each guide begins with source material most readers don’t have time to read, such as SAMHSA program documents, APA and NIMH guidance, and CMS telehealth policy, and he turns that reading into plain English, linking each original so you can check his work. Since Paul is not a licensed clinician, this therapy for children guide is not medical advice, and the full account of how each guide is researched, reviewed, and updated is in our editorial standards.

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