Dissociative Disorders & Telehealth

Published November 2025 · Last updated October 30, 2026 · Written by Paul Paradis, Editor · Educational information – not medical or mental-health advice

What changed: Reworded link and heading text without ranking claims: “best online therapy platforms for detailed” to “online therapy platform comparison for detailed”. Earlier on October 30: Added a line to the crisis box for episodes that leave someone unsafe, pointing to our emergency guide. Earlier on October 30: Retitled 2 headings in plainer words: “Understanding Dissociation” to “What dissociation feels like”, “Understanding Dissociation as Adaptation” to “Why the mind learns to dissociate”; reworded phrases in the text, such as “comprehensive” to “a full”.

Reviewed for educational clarity and safety language by Lisa Lewis, RN, BSN · Independent guide using public health and clinical information

Dissociative disorders require specialized, trauma-informed treatment from therapists with specific training, and telehealth has made it possible to access these specialists regardless of geographic limitations. These experiences often develop as ways of coping with overwhelming stress or trauma: the mind's protective response when experiences are too much to process in the moment. While dissociative disorders can feel frightening and isolating, effective treatments exist, and recovery is possible. The ISSTD treatment guidelines describe long-term, three-phase therapy (safety and stabilization, then trauma processing, then integration), so the question here is practical: which phases translate well to video, and which need a clinician in the room.

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What dissociation feels like

Dissociation exists on a spectrum from normal, everyday experiences to more severe disruptions that constitute disorders. Understanding this spectrum helps contextualize dissociative experiences:

Normal Dissociation

NAMI notes that up to 75% of people have at least one depersonalization or derealization episode in their lives, while only about 2% meet the criteria for the chronic form. Many people experience mild dissociation regularly without it being problematic:

Daydreaming: Getting absorbed in thoughts and losing track of surroundings
Highway hypnosis: Arriving somewhere without remembering the drive
Flow states: Becoming so absorbed in an activity that time seems to pass differently
Absorption: Getting lost in a book, movie, or music
Brief detachment during stress: Momentarily feeling unreal during intense situations

These experiences are common, usually brief, and don't significantly interfere with daily functioning.

Problematic Dissociation

Dissociation becomes concerning when it is:

Frequent: Happening often or for extended periods
Severe: Involving significant memory gaps, identity confusion, or loss of time
Distressing: Causing significant discomfort or fear
Interfering: Impacting work, relationships, or daily activities
Involuntary: Occurring without control and at inappropriate times

Common Dissociative Experiences

Depersonalization: Feeling detached from yourself, like you're observing yourself from outside your body, watching yourself in a movie, or feeling like your body, thoughts, or feelings aren't quite your own. You may feel robotic, unreal, or like you're going through the motions without being fully present.
Derealization: Feeling that the world around you is unreal, dreamlike, foggy, or distant. Things may look flat, colorless, or like you're seeing them through a veil. Familiar places may seem strange or unfamiliar.
Amnesia: Gaps in memory that go beyond ordinary forgetting. This might include inability to recall significant life events, personal information, or blocks of time. Some people describe "coming to" in places without knowing how they got there.
Identity confusion: Uncertainty about who you are: your values, beliefs, preferences, or sense of self may feel unclear, shifting, or contradictory.
Identity alteration: Shifts in identity that feel distinct from your usual self. Different "parts" or "states" with their own characteristics, preferences, or ways of relating to the world.

Types of Dissociative Disorders

The DSM-5 recognizes several distinct dissociative disorders. Only qualified mental health professionals can diagnose these conditions through a full evaluation.

Depersonalization-Derealization Disorder

Persistent or recurrent experiences of feeling detached from yourself (depersonalization), your surroundings (derealization), or both. Key features include:

Intact reality testing: you know these feelings aren't objectively true, but you still experience them
Episodes can be triggered by stress, anxiety, fatigue, or occur without clear trigger
Often described as feeling like you're in a dream, behind glass, or watching yourself from outside
May first appear in childhood or adolescence, often becoming chronic
Can be extremely distressing despite not appearing dramatic to others
Often co-occurs with anxiety and depression

Dissociative Amnesia

Inability to recall important personal information, usually related to traumatic or stressful events, that cannot be explained by ordinary forgetting. Types include:

Localized: Cannot remember a specific event or time period
Selective: Can remember some but not all aspects of a time period
Generalized: Complete loss of identity and life history (rare)
With dissociative fugue: Sudden, unexpected travel away from home with amnesia for identity (rare)

Dissociative amnesia is different from normal forgetting: the lost memories are significant and the gaps are often for events that would normally be remembered.

Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID)

Formerly called multiple personality disorder, DID is characterized by:

Two or more distinct personality states or identities (often called "alters," "parts," or "states")
Gaps in memory for everyday events, personal information, and/or traumatic events that go beyond ordinary forgetting
Different identities may have their own names, ages, genders, characteristics, behaviors, and memories
Switching between identities may be triggered by stress, specific situations, or internal factors
Typically develops in childhood before a unified identity forms, almost always in response to severe, repeated trauma
Often not diagnosed until adulthood, and frequently misdiagnosed first as depression, bipolar disorder, or other conditions

DID is often misunderstood due to media sensationalism. In reality, most people with DID do not have dramatically different visible personalities: the switches may be subtle and the person may hide symptoms due to shame or fear.

Other Specified Dissociative Disorder (OSDD)

Dissociative symptoms that cause significant distress but don't fully meet criteria for other specific dissociative disorders. Common presentations include:

Identity disturbance with less distinct personality states than DID
Identity alteration or possession states in cultural contexts
Dissociative symptoms following brainwashing or coercive control
Chronic, recurrent dissociative symptoms that don't meet full criteria for other disorders

Causes and Development

Dissociative disorders most commonly develop as protective responses to overwhelming experiences, particularly in childhood. Many people with dissociative disorders also experience symptoms of PTSD and trauma-related conditions.

Contributing Factors

Childhood trauma: Abuse (physical, sexual, emotional), neglect, or witnessing violence, especially when chronic, severe, or perpetrated by caregivers
Early age of trauma: Dissociative disorders typically develop when trauma occurs before identity has fully consolidated, usually before age 9
Lack of safe attachment: When caregivers who should provide safety are also sources of fear, the child has no safe haven and dissociation becomes a primary coping mechanism
Innate dissociative capacity: Some individuals may be more prone to dissociative responses
Situations where escape wasn't possible: Dissociation serves as a psychological escape when physical escape is impossible

Why the mind learns to dissociate

Dissociation usually starts as the mind's way of protecting itself:

Dissociation allowed survival of overwhelming experiences by compartmentalizing trauma
It protected the developing mind when direct processing was impossible
The problem is that these protective responses continue after the danger has passed
What was once adaptive becomes maladaptive in current safe environments
Treatment doesn't eliminate dissociation but helps integrate experiences and build more flexible responses

Treatment Approaches

Treatment for dissociative disorders is specialized and typically follows a phase-oriented approach. Finding a therapist with specific training in trauma and dissociation is essential: our guide on evaluating therapist credentials can help with this process.

Phase-Oriented Treatment

The widely accepted treatment model progresses through phases:

Phase 1: Stabilization and Safety

The foundation of treatment, often lasting months to years:

Establishing safety in the present: physical, emotional, and relational
Building a strong therapeutic relationship
Developing grounding and containment skills
Learning to manage dissociative symptoms
Addressing co-occurring issues (depression, anxiety, self-harm)
Stabilizing daily functioning
For DID: Developing internal communication and cooperation

Phase 2: Trauma Processing

Working through traumatic memories when sufficiently stable:

Processing traumatic material at a pace that doesn't overwhelm
Integrating dissociated memories, emotions, and experiences
Not every trauma memory needs to be processed in detail
This phase may not be necessary or appropriate for everyone
Should never be rushed: premature trauma processing can be destabilizing

Phase 3: Integration and Rehabilitation

Building a life beyond trauma:

Consolidating gains from treatment
Developing healthy relationships and coping skills
Building identity and sense of self
Creating a meaningful life
For DID: Integration (if desired) or functional cooperation between parts
Maintaining gains and preventing relapse

Therapeutic Approaches

Phase-oriented trauma therapy: The overall framework for treatment
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing): Can be effective for trauma processing when used with appropriate modifications for dissociative disorders
Parts work / Internal Family Systems (IFS): Working with different parts of self with curiosity and compassion
Ego state therapy: Similar to parts work, focusing on different states or aspects of self
Grounding and stabilization techniques: Essential tools for managing dissociation
Cognitive approaches: Addressing beliefs and thoughts related to trauma and self
Somatic approaches: Working with the body's trauma responses

Medication

While no medication specifically treats dissociation, medications may help with:

Co-occurring depression and anxiety
Sleep problems and nightmares
Mood instability
Intrusive trauma symptoms

Medication is typically most helpful as an adjunct to therapy, not as primary treatment for dissociative disorders.

Telehealth for Dissociative Disorders

Online therapy has made specialized dissociative disorder treatment more accessible than ever. See our online therapy platform comparison for detailed provider comparisons.

Benefits of Online Treatment

Access to specialists: Therapists with dissociation expertise may be limited in your area: telehealth removes geographic barriers
Comfort and safety: Attend sessions from your own safe space, which can reduce anxiety about therapy
Consistency: Easier to maintain treatment during difficult periods when leaving home is challenging
Flexibility: Schedule around energy levels and functioning
Grounding support: Access to your own grounding objects and environment
Control over environment: You can adjust lighting, temperature, comfort items
Reduced transition challenges: No driving home after processing difficult material

Considerations for Telehealth

Private space: Set up a confidential spot for sessions where you won't be interrupted
Grounding toolkit: Have grounding objects ready (ice, strong scents, textured items)
Safety planning: Discuss with your therapist what to do if dissociation occurs during sessions
Technical backup: Have a plan if connection is lost
Post-session time: Allow time to ground and stabilize after sessions before resuming activities
Crisis plan: Know how to reach your therapist or crisis resources if needed

Finding a Therapist

When seeking treatment for dissociative disorders:

Look for therapists with specific training in trauma and dissociation
Ask about their experience treating dissociative disorders
Inquire about their treatment approach and timeline
Ask whether they expect treatment to take time and avoid rushing it

Online Therapy Platforms

Find care without a sales page: Specialists in dissociation can be hard to find, so a referral source helps: search FindTreatment.gov or call SAMHSA’s National Helpline at 1-800-662-4357 and ask for trauma-informed care. The 988 Lifeline is available any time you feel unsafe.

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BetterHelp - search for trauma-specialized therapists
Talkspace - licensed therapists with trauma experience
Headway - find in-network trauma specialists
Grow Therapy - insurance-covered care
Rula - therapist matching service

Specialized Resources

ISSTD (International Society for the Study of Trauma and Dissociation): Find a therapist directory at isstd.org
Psychology Today: Filter for dissociative disorder specialization
EMDR International Association: Find EMDR-trained therapists

Grounding Techniques

Grounding helps bring you back to the present moment when dissociation occurs. Practice these regularly, not only during dissociative episodes:

Sensory Grounding

5-4-3-2-1: Name 5 things you see, 4 you hear, 3 you can touch, 2 you smell, 1 you taste
Temperature: Hold ice cubes, splash cold water on your face, or step outside
Strong sensations: Smell peppermint or strong scent, eat something sour, hold rough textures
Physical grounding: Press your feet firmly into the floor, feel the chair supporting you

Movement Grounding

Stamp your feet, feeling the impact through your body
Squeeze and release muscles progressively
Stretch, focusing on physical sensations
Walk around, noticing each step

Cognitive Grounding

Orientation: Say your name, the date, where you are, and that you are safe now
Describe your environment: Narrate what you see around you in detail
Breathing: Slow, deep breaths focusing on the physical sensation

Self-Help and Support

Beauty After Bruises: Education and resources for trauma and dissociation
Discussing Dissociation: Blog with educational resources
PODS (Positive Outcomes for Dissociative Survivors): UK-based resources and training
Online support communities: Peer support through moderated forums

When to Seek Additional Support

Consider more intensive care if:

You're unable to maintain safety
Symptoms are significantly interfering with daily functioning
Outpatient treatment isn't providing enough support
You're experiencing crisis situations frequently

Crisis Resources: If you're in crisis or feeling unsafe, contact the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline (call or text 988), the Crisis Text Line (text HOME to 741741), or go to your nearest emergency room.

Recovery and Hope

Recovery from dissociative disorders is possible. Treatment can help you:

Develop awareness and understanding of dissociative experiences
Build skills to stay present and grounded
Process traumatic experiences safely
Develop internal communication and cooperation (for DID/OSDD)
Build a more integrated sense of self
Create a fulfilling life beyond trauma

Recovery takes time and looks different for everyone. Progress isn't always linear, but healing is possible. Many people with dissociative disorders go on to live meaningful, connected lives.

Frequently asked questions

What is the difference between normal dissociation and a dissociative disorder?

Mild dissociation is common and normal, like daydreaming, 'highway hypnosis,' or feeling briefly detached during stress. Dissociative disorders involve more severe, persistent, or distressing dissociation that interferes with daily life. Key differences include frequency (happening often versus rarely), duration (lasting extended periods), severity (significant memory gaps, identity disruption), distress level, and impact on functioning. If dissociative experiences are affecting your work, relationships, or wellbeing, professional evaluation is recommended.

Can dissociative disorders be treated through online therapy?

Yes, many people with dissociative disorders successfully receive treatment through telehealth. Online therapy can provide access to dissociation specialists who may not be available locally, allow sessions from the comfort and safety of home, and offer flexibility for managing difficult days. However, telehealth works best when the client has a safe, private space for sessions, strategies for managing dissociation during sessions, and a therapist experienced in trauma and dissociation. For more severe presentations, in-person treatment or a combination approach may be recommended.

How long does treatment for dissociative disorders typically take?

Treatment duration varies significantly based on the specific disorder, severity, and individual factors. Depersonalization-derealization disorder may respond to treatment in months to a year. More complex conditions like DID typically require years of treatment, often progressing through phases: stabilization (months to years), trauma processing (varies), and integration/rehabilitation (ongoing). The pace should never be rushed: working too quickly can destabilize progress. Treatment focuses on building a life worth living, not only processing trauma.

What should I look for in a therapist for dissociative disorders?

Look for: specific training in trauma and dissociation (not only general trauma training); experience treating your specific condition; understanding of phase-oriented treatment approaches; familiarity with grounding techniques; a non-judgmental, validating stance; willingness to work at your pace without pushing trauma processing prematurely; and clear boundaries and communication style. Ask potential therapists about their experience with dissociative disorders, their treatment approach, how they handle dissociation during sessions, and their views on integration versus cooperation of parts.

What are grounding techniques and how do they help with dissociation?

Grounding techniques help bring you back to the present moment when dissociation occurs. They work by engaging your senses and orienting you to current reality. Examples include: the 5-4-3-2-1 technique (naming things you see, hear, touch, smell, taste); physical sensations (holding ice, splashing cold water, strong scents); movement (stomping feet, stretching); and orientation statements (saying your name, the date, where you are). Grounding is most effective when practiced regularly, not only during dissociative episodes. Your therapist can help you develop a personalized grounding toolkit.

Is dissociative identity disorder (DID) real?

Yes, DID is a real, recognized condition in the DSM-5 and ICD-11, supported by extensive clinical research and neuroimaging studies. DID develops as a response to severe, repeated childhood trauma before a unified identity fully forms. The presence of distinct identity states with different memories, behaviors, and even measurable physiological differences (like different prescription needs or allergies) has been documented in research. DID is often misunderstood due to media sensationalism, but it is a serious condition that responds to specialized treatment.

Keep reading after dissociative disorders

This guide provides general educational information only. Dissociative disorders are complex conditions that require professional diagnosis and specialized treatment. This information is not a substitute for evaluation and care from qualified mental health professionals with expertise in trauma and dissociation.

If you are experiencing dissociative symptoms that affect your daily life, please reach out to a licensed mental health provider with experience in trauma and dissociation for proper assessment and treatment.

Sources

Who researched and edited this dissociative disorders guide

Everything in this dissociative disorders guide was written and edited by Paul Paradis, the founder and editor of Telehealth Navigator, whose background includes more than two years inside a forensic mental health hospital setting and a personal and family life that mental health runs through. Each guide begins with source material most readers don’t have time to read, such as SAMHSA program documents, CMS telehealth policy, and APA and NIMH guidance, all of it rewritten here in plain English with links back to each original so you can verify it yourself. Paul is not a licensed clinician, and nothing in this dissociative disorders guide is medical advice, and the full process for how each guide is researched, reviewed, and updated is described in our editorial standards.